This should be a warning to those marrying foreign women and to anyone marrying someone with vastly different educational and financial backgrounds. The wise expression 'the apple does not fall far from the tree' should be taken very seriously for its truth. Psychopaths come from families of psychopaths. Psychopathic behavior can be stopped by people with values and a basic understanding of what is moral and what is immoral but if families see crimes as criminal acts only when a person is caught and receives a punishment commensurate with the crime and not when the act itself is committed, you should run as fast as you can, regardless of losses which will only increase. I consider myself lucky to be alive today and not in prison and yet realize that can change at the whim of a woman more than 3,000 miles away, should she so desire. I do not blame her. I blame the judges, many of whom I believe applaud genius criminal behaviors and may even associate that with 'winners' who should be rewarded. It is the twisted, sick, anti-family minds of corrupted, incompetent and immoral judges that are destroying our society from within.
I thought I had married an Australian woman when I lived in Sydney. However, I could not see what friends and others who had met her immediately saw, which was that her primary motives were a green card and easy money. On reflection, she and her family many times openly "joked" about these desires as confident as they were in being able to pull this scam off and I buried my head in the sand, desperate to be married. Having never had any family myself, she and her family played upon that weakness and I chose to ignore the history of her family for pulling swindles, including her mother's four marriages, all of which she very proudly admitted she greatly enriched herself. Regular physical and emotional abuse occurred even before we were engaged, a major red flag. Being older with very little dating experience, I could not see how I was being conned.
Jacqui convinced me to move back with her to Sydney and demanded I send my life savings, a considerable seven-figure amount as I had done very well with stock options for tech companies I had worked for during the boom. This was alleged to buy a house for us to live. Since I was not even a temporary Australian citizen at that point, I did so. This was followed immediately by her demanding a very large engagement ring ($27K) which she mocked as a 'starter' and the physical and emotional abuse skyrocketed. I told her I was breaking off the engagement and she calmly informed me she would return not a dollar. Since I had nothing in writing that indicated my sending of funds was intended for a marital home, I had no legal grounds to recover the money which would have been considered a gift. So, I foolishly went ahead with the sham marriage with her promise that I would receive some of my money back after her green card was received. Her family always supported her in every way as their viewpoint of the world was there were those who were hunters and those who were prey and it was the natural order. Ironically, the grandmother was a Schindler's List survivor who said that many who survived, including herself, had to put aside morals and if it meant taking the food and clothing of those who were weaker, that was what many people did and were mostly ashamed to talk about. She was not and the family was very proud of her survival skills.
We went back to Sydney, purchased the home she wanted and had a very large wedding for which no one I knew would attend. She insisted the bank account and house remain in her name, even after I became an Australian citizen, supposedly for tax reasons, which turned out not to be true at all. It was ironical, very much like the Australian film Muriel's Wedding where a very unattractive, uneducated, dreamer struck it big. On our wedding night, we slept in separate bedrooms at her insistence, even though we had slept together prior to our marriage. Separate bedrooms remained the norm for the next five years until the green card came through and we immediately returned to the US to activate. We did sleep together several times and did have two children which were only intended to increase her payout, something she later laughed and bragged about. She and family never showed the slightest amount of remorse and quite to the contrary, were amazed at the ease in which they had collectively pulled this off. As they later put it, it was much easier than the colloquial "taking candy from a baby" as I had effectively, handed it over.
On returning to the US, she very quickly hooked up with a very wealthy man, Marc, an HR executive at Lenovo and presented me with a separation agreement. If I did not sign, I would receive none of the financial proceeds from the sale of the home and would never see the kids again. Extremely naively, I initially did not believe it was possible until I started researching on the web and speaking to attorneys. I realized then that I could lose everything. The agreement was extreme and said I could not sue her soon to be husband for alienation of affection and I would need to take care of 100% of the children's financial needs including all medical, educational including private school and college, etc. expenses and make her the beneficiary of my estate including a large life insurance policy. I also had to put aside a very large six-figure amount in a 529 educational fund for each child. Furthermore, I would be responsible for all of her legal fees if I challenged any aspect. If I did not agree or took the document to an attorney for review, I would never see the children again so I foolishly signed. For that "agreement", she returned 25% of the funds I had earned prior to meeting her as we had saved nothing in the years I had worked due to her expected lifestyle including live-in housekeeping domestics and au pairs to take care of the children's needs.
As soon as the ink was dry on the separation agreement, I was told that my role was now finished and she was moving on with her life, immediately betraying the very misplaced trust I was forced to believe in. Seeing the children, 3 and 4 became a matter of a few hours on a Sunday when it was convenient for her, despite my having joint custody and much greater visitation rights. They refused to call me Dad or Daddy and referred to me by my first name and no matter what I did with them including strawberry picking and visiting museums, would carry on and scream they hated me and did not want to visit as I was 'poor'. My house was modest (2,000 sq. ft.) compared to their mother's (7,000 sq. ft.) who had walked away with over $1 million for a brief marriage, a figure she bitterly complained about was a mere pittance. Her husband, an imposing bald tri-athlete, would threaten to kill me every time I came to pick up the kids and repeatedly in front of them, said I was not their real father and a coward not to fight him - expressions mimicked by the children to me later.
Due to the insane separation agreement that did not specify any contact other than face to face, I could not send the children gifts through the mail nor call them. Additionally, a process for expense reimbursements was never spelled out. This meant that for convenience, her husband would bill me monthly via emailing me a spreadsheet with the date, amount, and provider but no receipts or evidence. Their argument was that the settlement agreement did not require it and unfortunately, when I stopped paying these additional amounts, found myself in court with a two-year suspended jail sentence, having to pay her attorney's fees and a very large penalty with the judge upholding both of these arrangements. She did, however, agree that providing receipts going forward, was reasonable.
Shortly before the minimum wait period for a remarriage was legal, she called me to her home to discuss a move to Beijing that he was going to take up for his career. I arrived and in no uncertain terms, told them I would oppose it with all legal means possible. They would not hear of that and at that point, he grabbed me in a headlock and took me down. After a series of punches from him and kicks from her, they let me leave and informed me I could not stop them. Bleeding, I went to urgent care to be treated and returned home to police cars in my driveway. They had reported me as attacking them and although not arrested, I was given a charge of domestic assault against a female and trespassing, despite having a text message inviting me to come over!
I immediately obtained the services of an expensive attorney near the courthouse in Raleigh and Russell told me that with two people testifying, I had no chance at all of going to trial. The text message was irrelevant as they could claim they told me to leave and I refused. I was forced to plead guilty to a crime I did not commit and if I signed an agreement allowing them to leave the state which the court approved, my record would be expunged in a year after successful completion of a series of humiliating classes. No visitation was ordered by the Raleigh judge when they soon after moved which was to Milwaukee for a new job when he was terminated from his Lenovo job for a series of internal criminal actions involving bonuses.
A year and a day after our divorce was final, she remarried. I found the very limited visitation rights I had were now effectively null and void in North Carolina. By the time I tracked her down and got a new court hearing, more than six months had passed and as per the court appointed guardian ad litem, it would be too "disruptive" for the children to have further contact and his recommendation to the court was 'status quo'. This was despite his refusal to meet or discuss the situation with me until my lawyer intervened. The court ordered reunification therapy but was exceptionally vague on purpose but did say that she was to do everything in her power to encourage a loving relationship between the children and myself. However, before any therapy could occur, to avoid this situation, he obtained another job in Los Angeles and they moved there.
As I lived in North Carolina, I could not find a therapist who could take on the case as they were not authorized to treat over the phone or via Skype to a person not living in California. Finally, after many months of searching, we found one very shady therapist with a long history of very negative reviews on the web. Dr. Shatz demanded a large upfront fee that I had to pay and I flew out to see her but she was frequently traveling and could not have any established schedule. In the meantime, the children's US and Australian passports had expired and I refused to agree to have them renewed while I could not see them. She went back to court for this and to terminate reunification therapy, despite only attending one session and therefore, as was argued, she met her obligation. Judge Treu not only removed my joint custody at that point allowing her to solely get the passports for an overseas move but also determined that reunification therapy was not necessary and he would not order any visitation. No legal or moral argument was presented by himself and I firmly believe, like a lot of judges, that he received a very handsome retirement gratuity for his services.
I filed suit against the sheriff and da in collin county. Besides interference 2 judges committed act in violation of the penal code. On the sheriff and da, The code of criminal procedure is quite clear and used the mandatory lanuage SHALL. In a nut shell both the sheriff and da must take a statement. Additionally if a crime ie penal code violation was submitted, they have a nondiscrestionary duty to submitt it to the courts. I filed suit against them saying the legislative intent is mandatory and they as a individual chose not to enforce the law. Additionally children and myself have suffered irreparable emotional pain and suffering. In this type case you have to get past the immunity part first. But if you sue individually and not in a official capacity it can be done. I asked for money damages. I can find no case law where anyone sued for money damages. All cases were based on injunctive relief. I had a now ex committ aggravated perjury with transcripts as evidence. I have supervised visits as a result. Additionally we had a court enforced binding settlement agreement. Even the 5th court of appeals found it binding. But after one recused judge, the neck judge changed the agreement, appointed a receiver for the home which was settled in the agreement. The court told me to move out I said no. I was held in contempt and the house sold. I was not allowed to file a habeous corpus by the sheriff. What makes it interesting is 3 days before jailed i had a pacemaker put in. So i filed breach of contract/judgment againt the 2 judges along with a separate one for penal code violations and etc. In Texas after a court enforces a judgment they have plenary power for 30 days. These 2 judges in violation of plenary powers and by statue can only clarify a settlement agreement. No add terms, amend alter etc. I filed a mandamus to get clarification on plenary powers and settlement agreements. The judge cannot rule on all cases the same day. I plan on filing partial summary judgement on all as soon as they answer and the 21 day rule is out of the way. If the judge grants the first immunity i will file a change of venue under trcp 257 and 258 on the rest immediately. This will ensure one line of appeal. This should be interesting especially since I can play one off the other. My ssdi was cut off due to jail( fixed now) so i got to file indigent. If i get past the immunity, i can bare their ass in court. I asked for jury trial. I am pro se no lawyer. The judge who reclused said i was very smart. If the appeals court rules in my favor its makes it easier. They my decline to rule. Kind of hope immunity is denied then i might just go to court. Either way us abused parents will know how to file suit. I am suing the ex in a different court. I found a case out of Houston apellate court saying in breach of contract u can file in any jurisdiction. This oyght to be fun. I plead in my petution if any entity or person grants immunity rhey to are gulity of penal code violations. Thought I would share, on this case I could write all night.
My kids were abducted to the "divorce capital of the world" (take a guess where) so my ex could avail a better financial settlement. There was no jurisdiction for her to apply for divorce there as she was not a national nor resident so she made numerous false allegations of domestic violence and child abuse against me and embroiled me long enough in child welfare investigations to achieve jurisdiction.
Many investigations later, I was exonerated by social services and able to have extensive contact, but she regularly breached court orders. Both kids suffered from parental alienation syndrome. Was told by my lawyer that because of my ethnic origin and religion (it was put more diplomatically of course), if I voiced a concern I may be deemed as not supporting the kids relationship with the mother and / or an abduction risk. I also lost my job, millions of dollars in legal fees, my health.
I feel terrible to read about your experiences. I seems to be the same story again and again. May god give us strength and protect our beautiful children.
1Hello back in August 2009 i was the subject of amber alert. You can google my name followed by amber alert to read the story. I was never arrested for this. The sister in law of Chenelle call 911 and told them she is Chenelle and i kidnapped them all at gun point. This was investigated and proved to be a false 911 call. Needles to say Fl DCF removed the kids and stated in an emergency hearing the kids are unsafe and must be removed from the father and mother. For 2 yrs i seen my kids for 1 hour every 2 weeks. I never missed a court date or visit with my kids. Eventually my case went to trial. The judge order said i will retain full parental rights & the ex boyfriend mother will have guardianship until my kids are 18. This was done because the mother gave up & stop coming to court. The mother rights where terminated. The mother ex boy friends mom lied to the court and stated she was the biological grandmother.
9 yrs later i just won 50/50 time share with said guardian. Now guardian is doing everything to have the court end 50/50 time share because it stop her child support & goverrment benefits. The biological mother is deceased. Now the guardian collects death benefits will the kids live with me. The system is broken. We have a fundamental right to parental responsibilty & time share as stated in the constitution. Never give up & keep fighting!
Judge allowed my ex, who has no job, no marketable skills and no way to support herself or our child without relying 100% on family, to move our daughter 1200 miles from me to live with her family in Arizona. She has repeatedly denied me court ordered visitation with our daughter over the past 5 years, and was never held in contempt for doing so. I have never in the past 5 years missed one visitation with my daughter, even trying constantly to get my ex to agree to let me spend more time with her, have not missed one child support payment. Filed for primary custody when she petitioned to be able to move and was denied and had my daughter taken from me. I will be lucky now to see my daughter 2 or 3 times a year. This has devastated me, my wife, and our families. There is no justice in this type of "justice system".
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Went through hell like many on here with my ex-wife alienating me from my two children. All the classic alienation moves. Needless to say when the kids reached 18 we re-established contact and were developing a healthy relationship. Everything was good. I allowed my son to move into my home to "help him out". Well after three years of living with me with everything provided for free and him not lifting a finger to help out I had to ask him to leave. Twenty five and still going from job to job with no direction. Ex-wife took that as a good time to alienate me from the children again. My son had a child 5 years ago and he and the mother never married. Since I asked him to move out he is angry and this is fueled by his mother. The mother of his child and he are going through a custody battle in court with DCFS involved. He has tried to have the court declare that I am not allowed contact with my grandson. DCFS has already done extensive background checks on me and have refused to honor my son's request. I am thankful for this. I also get along well with the mother and get to have my grandson as much as I want. I am curious about something though. Have there ever been any studies done regarding children of divorced parents and those children being diagnosed with ADD? I know many divorced women and consequently custodial parents that cannot control their children, take them to a physician etc and those children are diagnosed with ADD and promptly medicated. My theory is that when in an intact family the dad is the usual discipliner to the children. When the father is reduced to a "visitor" to his children the role of discipliner is taken over by the mother. Mom finds she cannot control the child(ren) and takes them to the doctor to find out what is "wrong" with the kids. Ah there we go - ADD - we need to medicate. I am astonished that Physicians will so willingly diagnose and medicate instead of alternate means. Just my opinion but I think there are so many over medicated children out there. Kids will be kids, boys rough housing or kids in simple play doing what kids do is now considered activity to be medicated. Wow how the world has changed.
My ex disappeared with my daughter 5 years ago. From 2010-2013 I had no clue where she was. In 2013 i was summoned to court for child support and learned that she was living in North Carolina. I live in Indiana and have driven to NC 10 times trying to get her into court. Each time, she's found a way to avoid being there and the courts have allowed it. She even managed to move to Colorado and is currently on a vacation to Germany. Can someone PLEASE help me!?!?
I've told this story so many times and written to so many politicians, state reps, media, judges, Dept Of Revenue (Florida), Domestic Relations staff and the Child Support Enforcement Unit themselves in the past 6 months to no avail. It's almost as if they know this tyranny is going-on and choose to ignore-it and disregard it because, either they are really powerless or just plain are not concerned and could care less about honest and caring non-custodial parents. Perhaps most of them are discreetly involved in these schemes. All I know is, it is not right, they are in fact biased and they over extend their power unjustly. I also know in my heart that they should not be immune from legal action or criminal charges for forcing people like me into intense depression, mental anguish, hardships and homelessness like they have for the past 6 years. The fact that I am a US Army Vet w/ a clean background is irrelevant as I consider myself a law abiding citizen born in the US and naturally a generous and pleasant person. To compound matters I'm having to deal with 2 dishonest custodial parents who just sit back, collect and laugh their way to the bank every 2 weeks - monthly. The "children" are 19, 21 & 22, not living with their wicked mothers and self-sufficient with kids of their own but still, this NY enforcement unit continues to charge and garnish my disability at 60%. They claim they did not receive any court orders that I have to be the one to send it to them. Meanwhile, the records room sent them to storage at another location even when I requested them. I followed their instructions and mailed them a notarized letter twice.
I'm so sure it's all part of the rigged system to make it almost impossible for us to resolve these obstructions. So, here I am languishing in some VA Domiciliary, on mental health treatment and still unable to be independent or get my life back. They have garnished every single source of income I've had since 1994. Tax refunds in it's entirety, salaries, unemployment benefits, suspension of licenses, bed credit, and recently, alienation from those I helped support over the years. Who (I ask) is committing the crime here?
To compound matters, the former spouse misled and used me to thinking we were still friends and heavily involved in our daughters lives. While I was unemployed last year she confides in me that she will terminate the order if I'm willing to take one of our daughters to live with me and support her. I say (of course, you know I've never denied helping no matter what little I have) I'll do the leg work with the audio hearing etc. A week before the hearing she reversed course and said she could not attend due to only having 2 sick days left at work. That was her lame excuse but the real reason was, she did not want to reveal her assets and was so greedy that she wanted to wait for the outcome of my disability case which I won in Dec 2014. What did the enforcement unit do? They quickly, without questions or regards for my situation sunk their fangs into that compensation and took a big chunk plus the monthly 60% which left me again, struggling to get proper housing and having to consider yet another shelter.
I know this almost sounds ludacris or that I may be over exagerrating and even I can't believe these heartless dirtbags are crucifying me this way but it is true and I can prove it all in a court if ever given the chance.
At this point and time, I feel this letter will only fall on deaf ears as usual. I wrote to the supreme court last week and I responded to Marco Rubio's Office insult to my intelligence. They will do nothing but say..."it's really a separation powers and cannot advocate". I've heard it more than once. I will find a way to find a comparable, bold and aggressive attorney to bring it to court. This cannot remain shrouded for ever. God grant us the wisdom and soften those stone hearts of so many. Amen!
~ Joe Lopez Jr. (US Army Vet)
My case is one of the small minority where the Commission on Judicial Performance actually took disciplinary action against the "judge". He was found by the California Supreme Court to show bias and embroilment in my case.
The judge took away all my parental rights, except monitored visits, paying the judge's neighbor $50 per hour 10 hours every other week. When my ex denied even that visitation, the judge would not enforce.
I was ordered to pay child support based on zero custody. The Court looked right at my ex spouses pleadings, saying he was denying me all visitation, used the 0% figure and did not admonish my ex to give me my limited visitation.
I was charged $4,400 per month, even though I had no health insurance for myself and no attorney representing me.
My child is 21 now, and I'm still strapped with a quarter million child support arrears bill that grows by $1,500 per month interest. So my child was taken from me by a biased judge and I was ordered to pay. If my child was kidnapped, at least I could have gotten him back by paying ransom.
I wanted 50/50 custody of my kids and that was recommended by the custody evaluator. Judges ignored all recommendations and gave me 20% and a high child support amount. At each return to court, for work related schedule modifications, the courts take more time away from me and order me to pay more support without reason, yet do not modify schedules. They retroactively modify and re-interpret orders forcing me to pay even more. Last year I was ordered to pay $85k in back child support on commissions along with $52k in current support, all the while I was current! My bank accounts have been seized twice, my kids have been used to spy on me, I am denied medical expense hardships for $500/month in medical expenses and owed $190k in taxes last year. After child support and taxes I was left with ~$50k to live on and pay 1/2 kids medical, child care, my own expenses, including my medical and cancer treatment. I have no savings, while my ex earns $160k/year and has $250k in cash in the bank.
My daughter has ADD. My ex wife had not given me the information it about till I found out for my daughter was having an evaluation for an IEP in the 8th grade. She was failing 2 nad 3 semester in the 8th grade. I found a program to help my daughter. The ex refused to put her into the program. It was to help with her executive function. Tjhe court agreed and now I have to file a motion for reconsideration. Stupid
My husband has 2 kids, he pays their mothers each $650 per month. My one step son lives farther away and his mom has not ever been remarried and is living alone. I see child support as reasonable in this case. My other step son lives 2 minutes down the road, his mother was making $10k per year when she took him for child support. My husband makes $65k. Well over the last 5 years she has remarried and her new husband makes $120k per year and does not want her to work. How is it fair to my husband and I that we are going into debt over this child support and she's able to maintain a $14k savings account for herself and go on Caribbean vacations 2x per year? We have this child 50-60% of each month. It just seem fair that the new step father's income would matter in this case, he's supporting them. Yes it's voluntary but if a woman quits her job because of the new husband then there is no way she can better herself or know her true earning capacity. She went from !5k to $25k in 3 years, how do we know she couldn't get higher?
In 50/50 both parents are residential parents each parent should raise the child on their time and split everything else, such as medical. Extra curricular activities and so forth.
A story from the UK.
My wife and I became proud parents to a beautiful baby girl in 1995. Regrettably over the next two years or so, the relationship between my wife and I deteriorated and in 1997 we separated and in 1998 we were divorced.
Initially we both went to extreme lengths to explain how we wanted to make sure our 2 year old daughter 's interests were put first. My ex-wife had residency and my daughter came to stay with me on alternate weekends. However after a couple of months I saw a totally different side to my ex-wife
For the next 5 or 6 years, I and my family did enjoy regular contact with daughter, with her typically residing with me every other weekend, although I could sense my ex-wife was not too happy about this. I always tried to do my absolute utmost to ensure my daughter's safe and happy welfare, despite my ex-wife taking countless opportunities to demean me and put significant obstacles in the way.
In 2004, totally out-of-the-blue, I received a bewildering and devastating letter, supposedly from my daughter stating that she did not want contact with me or my family anymore. Although very upset, we reluctantly felt we had no choice, but to go along with these requests. My ex-wife informed me she would speak with our daughter to resolve the situation, but this never actually materialised. I contacted social services and my daughter's school and they advised me it was probably just a phase my daughter was going through, and to give her a little space and all would work out. In reality, contact with my daughter was effectively blocked. In a desperate attempt to stay in contact, I started to write and send her letters on a weekly basis, sometimes containing little gifts. This continued for the next 2 years when quite by chance I found out that my ex-wife had moved house 6 weeks prior. This was obviously deeply distressing for me and my family and since then the only way I could stay abreast of my daughter's welfare was via her school. My ex-wife continued to refuse to give me or my family a contact address or telephone number for my daughter. I continued to send birthday and Christmas cards to my ex-wife's parents’ address for forwarding on, but I had no acknowledgement that these were getting through.
My father threw my mother out of our home one winter night when I was four years old. She had no shoes or coat on and a broken wrist. First thing the next morning he got a lawyer to call this "abandonment" and he received temporary custody. By the time the court date came to get full custody, my mother had been bullied and intimidated and beaten down, emotionally (but also physically, w/ a broken wrist) and backed down. My father gained full custody. I wish I could meet that lawyer who gave my father temp custody based on my mother's "abandonment".
I live in Australia. I recently received my daughter's School Report in the mail. It remains the only tiny shred of information that tells me she is alive. You can imagine how utterly overwhelming is the spectrum of emotions I go through when I hold that precious bit of paper and drink in every single word -over and over again. Or can you? Its not really that different to the overwhelming emotions alienated parents go through practically every hour of every single day. My daughter has been betrayed by people of influence who should hang their heads in shame. Her places of learning have failed her, various counsellors, lawyers, family members and Court professionals have failed her. The system has failed her. Our society has failed her. This was preventable and should not have happened. Parental Alienation (and its myriad of subtleties which bring the same result) is child abuse and needs to be recognised and treated as such. I am channeling my outrage in two ways. My priority is to be available and as healthy and happy as I can manage so that I am right where my daughter needs me to be when she resurfaces from the underworld. I haven't always been happy and healthy given the torture that is PA but with support from a wonderful wife and friends, I know my many blessings. I have always been available though. I have relentlessly assured her that she can call me about anything on any day at any time - always. I believe she knows that will never change.My second intention is to help raise awareness that PA (or pathogenic parenting) is child abuse - nothing less. Child abuse is everyone's business. It is not ok to stick your head in the sand when a child's treatment of an emotionally available parent does not add up. Its too late to save the years my daughter has already lost with her paternal family but I want to help prevent some others from going through this evil nightmare that ruins lives. Understanding is improving and awareness is growing with researchers such as Woodall and Childress opening doors. Please take an interest.
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My grandson lives with his father for six years my daughter has been in and out of court on false claims in an effort to make her look as bad as possible so that she will not get 50 percent custody. We have sunmitted proof of false claims, the father and his lawyer have lied to the judge, the judge caught them in lies and still they do nothing to him, he smoke screens the real issues and purgers himself openly, he wants us to go away so him and his new wife can steal my grandson and the courts are letting them do it. I hired a lawyer, the lawyer says there are no grandparent rights in California. he knows my grandson tells me what they say about us, I repeated it in court after the judge ordered both parents not to talk bad about each other in front of him. He disregards all court orders knowing there will be no penalty cause his dad works for the county. I thought very seriously about filing a case against the court for keeping my grandson from us unlawfully due to conflict. I have contacted children rights advocates and they say they can't help because my grandson is not "in the system" this poor child has grown up to believe we are bad people and we don't matter. It is a crine in its own right. He makes up stories about drugs and his brother has a prescription and deals pot, he turns everything around on us in court. I'm disgusted with the court system.
i thought about filing a dept of justice complaint but don't know if it would do any good. These people are the bad ones, to mentally twist and corrupt a child's mind, he is acting out now after six years of this and there is nothing I can do. Very sad
Judge refuse to indict women for contempt for denied visitations. Mileage, phone records, and affidavits proved missed visitations beyond doubt. Things only got worse from here.
I'm an former Air Force Lt Colonel and an Air Force Academy grad. I was in Big Brother Big Sisters for 5 years and still keep in touch with my "little brother" who was a Marine serving in Iraq, but now I can't contact my own two daughters. I personally spent 9 months and $10K on attorney fees fighting my X for contempt of court, but now she's turned my kids against be telling them I initiated the lawsuit (I only threaten her) and telling them I asked to get the kids "psych evaled." I have not been able to reach my daugthers in over a year (no text, calls, or emails). My X tried to accuse me of emotional abuse and turned my kids against me with lies, just to deflect my charges of 4 years of blatant denied visitations averaging 12 denied visitation a year. A normal, sane, caring mother who is concerned about the welfare and emotional health of her kids does not do this, but these type of mothers get to raise our kids.
My former wife and I separated 5 years ago, during that time she has moved to Tennessee and I have moved to Washington. The last time I saw my daughter was 4 years 8 days 3 hours and 54 minutes ago. In that time I have tried time and again to get some type of visitation that doesn't require me to forgo paying rent or buying food. At the time of separation we lived in Indiana. I am trying to get her to agree to an annual exchange of custody so I can see my daughter but she has thus far refused and is refusing visitation (since traveling is dangerous to her according to her mother). I don't have a lot of money and live paycheck to paycheck. I suspect that I'll have to get the courts involved but I have no idea where to start and what steps to take... Help?
my nameis bruce and the mother of my child just stop letting me see her about a month ago..i am a dedicated father who loves his little girl,i work everyday i pay $180.00 every 2 weeks in child support..i own a 5 bedroom house and i am drug and alcohol free..she is mad at me for whatever reason i do not know..but i do not deserve to have the relationship with my daughter severed because of her anger towards me...i had to take my daughters easter basket and her easter dress to her daycare because her mom will not answer any text messages or phone calls..i hope that i get granted some type of visitation or temporary custody because my daughter deserves a better life than what she is getting..her mom had her living in a hotel from febuary-3rd up until may 3rd with her fiance who is an alcoholic with a ccw..yes he carries a gun..and i am just stressed out about my childs safety and well being..this is the first time having to deal with this type of situation..so any advice will bre well taken.. thank you!!!